Things I Refuse

I am usually good about learning and doing new things. I think that having an open mind is important but there are some things that I refuse.  

     1.     Crop tops: These shirts will never work for me (even if I had a perfect tummy). When someone I know wears a crop top, I feel like my eyes go directly to their stomach. It may work for some people, but these tops will never work for me.

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     2.     Smoking: UGH!!! I don’t understand. I know it can be addicting but I will never understand how people take that first puff. GROSS!

     3.     Letting my family members pee with the door open: This REALLY gets to me. I hate the sound. I will close my ears when I am in a public bathroom with multiple stalls. I just can’t stand hearing people do their business.

     4.     Body Piercings: I don’t mind nose rings or belly button rings, but these will never work for me. I have 3 piercings on both of my ears but I don’t see myself getting a piercing in another area of my body.

     5.     Tattoos: The word permanent is so intimidating to me! However, some people can totally rock their tattoos!

     6.      Drugs: Do I have to go into this?

     7.     Camouflage: It’s just not my style. I don’t mind if other people wear it. Unless I am dressing up for something or decide to join the military you will not see me wearing it.

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     8.     Pet Snakes: They’re fun to look at!

     9.     The word “puberty”: Obviously it’s hard not to use this word in some circumstances, but the word just sounds gross to me!

    10. Chihuahuas: I never liked these dogs. My dislike for them was confirmed when one chased me down the street. He stopped chasing me after I started barking back at it (DON’T ASK). I am very cordial with them but I will never like them.

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Comment with something that you refuse!

10 Things I will Never Understand About the Winter Olympics

I have really enjoyed watching the Winter Olympics over the past 2 weeks. I have to give credit to all the athletes that had the privilege to compete. Their talent is truly remarkable. However, there are a few things that I will never understand about some of these sports.

Curling

     1.     First of all, WHY!? (Clearly because it is the most creative thing ever!) Does this sport exist because a few kids were bored one day?

     2.     What is up with those patterned pants?

     3.     Why is it necessary to yell at their opponents when it is time to put their “brooms” to work? (I find this absolutely hilarious).

     4.     I am so fascinated by their shoes. They look like running shoes! If I wore those shoes at an ice skating rink, I would be flat on my butt. However, I have a feeling I would be really good at this game.

(To be reminded of what curling is click here)

Cross-country skiing

     5.     Don’t they get wedgies wearing those outfits? My urge to pick my wedgy would be much greater than the urge to get to the finish line.

     6.     Why would ANYONE want to ski that long? Talk about exhaustion.

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Figure Skating

     7.     How do they not get dizzy from spinning so many times? I get dizzy after getting off a tire swing.

Skeleton

     8.     Why is it called the skeleton? It must be called that because of the risk that is involved.

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     9.     How do they run so fast on the ice? I can’t run that fast on a track!

Opening Ceremonies Outfits

    10.   Did Ralph Lauren design these during the holiday season? Because the 80’s called and they want their Christmas sweaters back! On the other hand, I loved the hats!

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Stay tuned for the Summer Olympics of 2016, there are plenty of unanswered questions I have related to those events!

Anxiety: Another Calling

When I started this blog I wanted to be able to share what’s on my heart. I want it to be place where people can come to when they need encouragement. Today I will write about anxiety. I think that having anxiety is a huge epidemic in society today and I want to address it.

                  Before I started writing, I took a poll. I asked people from ages 10 to 60 about their experience with anxiety. The question was, “Would you say that you feel anxious about something right now? Whether it is a due date for an assignment, a bill you have to pay, a conversation you need to have with someone, or waiting for some big news? Answer yes or no.” Approximately 80% of people said yes, and 20% said no. The people that responded “no” said something along the lines of “No, but ask me again tomorrow!!” Some people just put a one-word answer, but 57% of the people that responded, went into detail about the anxiety they are experiencing. One of my close friends said, “Yes, yes, yes and yes. Honestly yes to all 4!” Another friend told me about the anxiety he was experiencing from searching for a job. He went into detail about the different things he was anxiously awaiting. I was expecting yes or no answers from my participants. Once I heard all of the detailed responses, I was immediately involved in their anxiety.

                  I think we are called to be in community with each other. We are called to be involved in each other’s anxiety. When I am feeling overwhelmed or anxious about something, I am in total need of a friend to encourage me. When a friend is feeling anxious about a test or an obstacle they are trying to overcome, it is our responsibility to pick them up and walk with them. I am realizing after my poll that my loved ones are just dying to share their worries with people. If you know a friend that is struggling, send them a note, shoot them a text, or buy them a coffee. This can make a big difference in that person’s attitude towards their anxiety.

                  Last semester, I was in my speech class complaining to my friend about my workload. She nodded her head in sympathy. She also said something that swirls around my head every time I am anxious about something. She said, “Just take a second and accept the fact that you have a crap load of homework.” So I did, and it set a fire under my butt. I passed the stage of feeling sorry for myself, and it was a great feeling. The next thing I would suggest is to breathe. Feeling anxious about a test? Stop. Take a deep breath and continue. Another thing that is helpful is to recall the last time you were overwhelmed and you succeeded. The paper will eventually be done. That bill will get paid. Remember what the finish line looks like.  The last (and in my opinion the most important thing) is hope. I have a hope in Jesus Christ. I believe, and know; that he wants nothing more than to be the one I come to when I am anxious. He wants me to trust in him and not to worry. Find peace in the midst of your anxiety. God created us to live in community with each other.

Peace can overcome!

"An Anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up.” Proverbs 12:25

The Perks of being "Off"

This past summer I spent 9 weeks on Catalina Island working at a camp called Campus by the Sea. It was a great experience for me because I got to serve campers without any distractions and engage in a unique community. One of the rules that the staff abides by is being disconnected from social media. I have done this before during other mission trips and it was fairly easy. It was harder this time around because I was in a new place for an extended amount of time and I had to use a payphone to call home. At the end of the day all I wanted to do was call my mom and tell her what happened that day. Being off our phones actually forced our staff to find other ways to actually engage with one another (who would have thunk it?!) It was great. A couple of us would anxiously await the daily newspaper just to see what was going on across the sea. For those of you that know me know that my iPhone is an extension of my hand. You can always get a hold of me at any time of the day. It’s horrible! But I never wanted to do anything about it.

         In January I decided to take a couple days off from social media. For two days I removed Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and Snapchat from my phone. I GOT SO MUCH DONE! I did not procrastinate on my homework, and I felt at peace even with my busy schedule. I didn’t feel the anxiety of not looking at my phone during a meal wondering what I was missing out on. It was like I was back on the island. I knew that I needed to make this a regular thing.

         I was with my friend Luke during one of those days and I was telling him how rewarding this small fast was. We both decided during the month of February that we were going to make this a regular thing. We settled on doing two days on, one day off and so on. So every three days we are “off”. It has been so rewarding. The night before each “off day” one of us will text each other saying “no social media tomorrow”. During those days it is great. We don’t have any distractions and we don’t feel the need to look at our phones every second. Some days are hard because we miss seeing what everyone is up to, but those days are the most peaceful. Not only is it effecting us during our off days but its effecting us on our “on” days too. I have noticed a slow decrease in the amount of times I check my phone. The number of tweets I post is slowly decreasing, and I no longer see every Instagram post in my feed. It causes me to not be up to date with all the gossip and gives me time to actually get stuff done!

         I want to encourage all my readers to join me on this journey. Maybe you are reading this and thinking how stinkin’ hard it will be for you. I promise you, it’s not as bad as you think. Start with just one day a week and then gradually add more off days. You will start to see the differences in your day with a small change. Now that I have started this pattern I am starting to look forward to my “off days” because I know it will be a good day with no distractions.

YOU CAN DO IT!